Whether you are just a teenager, a young guy in 20s or a man past 30s, asking a girl out can be a stressful matter. If you are quite head over heels about the lady, you are more prone to be anxious at the outcome. You may wonder whether she will accept your invitation or end up laughing in your face. You may have received a lot of encouragement from your buddies and you may have checked out the best cues and lines to apply, but when it comes to the moment of truth, you might be sweating your brows. However, if you really like her, and wish to know her better, wipe your sweating palms, take a deep breath and make your wishes known. Below are some cute ways to ask her out, that she may just not have the heart to refuse you.
How to do it - How are you going to ask her out? Some guys prefer to just get it over with, while others may like to ponder on the best method. Some guys may be able to simply walk up to her and ask her out in front of her friends, while others may wait till she is alone. Will you ask her in person or over the phone? You can even drop in a message via Facebook or mail her or text her. There is no one right way to go about this although some girls may not like some of these methods. So, the choice is yours. However, make note that there is nothing better than asking her in person.
Send her a note - A note is a lovely and thoughtful way of asking a girl out. Be honest and tell her that you would be honored to spend a special evening with her getting to know her better. Never drop innuendos and keep your note short. You can send the note to her home or work place with a single red rose or in a box of chocolates. This is of course a very romantic way to go about it and will go well with those girls who like romantic gestures. Some others may like to keep their dating more private and hence prefer more discreet ways.
Burn a CD - This will only work if you know her well enough to know what songs she likes. However, if you have known her long enough as a friend this is a sure way to get her attention. At the end of the CD you can record your question and ask her out on a date.
Leave her a gift - A small gift at her doorstep with a note will always get her attention. However, make sure you ask her out in person as well.
Bake something - If you are into this sort of thing, you can try baking a cake and asking her out in icing. You can also consider baking some letter cookies and spelling the question out.
Ask her directly - You can avoid all of the above and ask directly her out on a date. Remember to look at her when you are asking the question. Never let your eyes wonder elsewhere. She may just love the sincerity she see in your eyes and decide to say "yes". .
Once advice to guys out there, wringing their hands at the prospects of having to ask a girl out is that it is no rocket science. There is one perfect way to do so. Having some ideas of what the girl likes or what her character is like will help you make a better decision. However, it has to be done at the right time and right place. Always remember to gauge her mood and her attraction to you. If she is in a good mood and if she demonstrates her likeness of you through her body language, then, seize the chance and ask her out. You are sure to be spending next Saturday night on a date with her.